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Monday, April 06, 2009

How to Deal with Feeling Bitches

I had a terrible, challenging, and exciting experience on dealing with a feeling bitch before. At first, I just let her bully me with her nonsense comments and normally she can easily piss me off. Through mails, public sites and text messages. (Thats why i had to cancel some of my mailing accounts) Then I realized, ignoring her is not the answer.

I found some advise on how to deal with her through some sites and it works on me! Yes it is fun, fun to piss her off via ironical mails but saying reasonable and unbeatable truth. Its true as Vera says The Bitches game is very interesting when you drive those feeling bitches crazy by “not being feeling bitchy but elegant bitch”.

Learn how to deal with the (feeling) bitches smartly and feel like grown up.

1. Never show fear. Get control over your self and take a few deep breaths .This will give you time you need to override your natural responses. Keeping calm gonna piss her off coz it’s a message loud and clear that she hasn’t gotten to you.

2. Deliver a rebuttal that makes her backdown and puts you in charge.
3. Feel sorry for them. Its difficult to get angry with people when you pity them. They don’t have a grasp on their own lives and therefore try to shatter someone else’s because inability to control their own jealousies. It is a condition that deserves pity and compassion, but also intolerance.
4. Look at yourself from their perspectivelt’s good to get another viewpoint. Very few of us are perfect. We might have a trait that sends everybody else crazy.
A woman should be proud to declare she is a Bitch, because Bitch is Beautiful (and she is not - haller!). It should be an act of affirmation by self and not negation by others. Not everyone can qualify as a Bitch. (kaya dont assume you are a bitch).
5. SMILE! BE HAPPY, CONFIDENT, FABULOUS, and GORGEOUS!
I know this doesn't look like a grown up to me. But .....whatever! cheers!

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